(Last Updated On: August 17, 2018)
The last time celebrity couple Vera Sidika and Otile Brown were in the news about a supposed break up, it turned out to be a publicity stunt for Otile Brown’s latest song “Baby Love” which has been a mega hit. Today once again it appears the relationship is over for real going by the statement Vera Sidika released on Instagram. She captioned the two photos:
Otile Brown and I are no longer in a relationship. I know it’s not important but since social media was involved it’s good to just speak my mind about it here.
To avoid y’all tagging me on posts, sending me videos and all that stuff. I’m human. And just like every human. I have feelings, I experience all emotions. I cry. I laugh. I get happy. I get sad.
Feel free to judge. Feel free to share this post with your friends & gossip about it, feel free to Mock my situation. It’s okay, I’m human and I’m gonna be true to myself.
Here is her full statement:
I never in a million years thought I’d be the type to express how I feel. i still can’t believe I am typing this but hey! I am human. And I do have feelings. I have emotions. I get happy. I get sad. I laugh. I cry. That’s just how human I am.
This might be a sign of weakness to many but I honestly don’t care if y’all laugh, mock or take this post all over Twitter, Facebook, Whatsapp Groups…because talking about it or sharing might just make me feel a little relieved.
Otile Brown and I are no longer in a relationship. For the first time, this (relationship) I felt right. You can laugh about it but I’m just gonna be open & speak my mind today.
I loved him wholeheartedly thinking he was in this relationship out of love he portrayed but I guess I was wrong. i would never involve someone’s heart if I need something from them. We are adults and can always come to mutual agreement if we need help here and there.
For the people who said I was paid to fake a relationship with Otile Brown just to boost his career; I was not paid a single cent. Neither was I in that relationship for publicity & that’s why i was skeptical about posting pics on my IG because it wasn’t about that for me. I got into this relationship cause of love. I had no ulterior motives whatsoever. I saw people talk about “she’s only there for his money once it’s over she will leave. Let me make ONE thing clear. I have NEVER gotten even 1 bob from Otile Brown. Never borrowed him money. Never received any money. Never even hinted a thing or even showed him any signs that I need any materialistic gifts or favors from him. And he knows this.
I was in this purely out of love and I was there for him anytime and every time he needed me. I gave him full support, love and care. I encouraged him. I supported his dreams. I was ride or die for him. I was faithful 100%. i turned down hot guys, governors, presidents from different countries who wanted to date me cause I’m not about that life anymore. My year started on a clean slate. Full of positivity. I wanted to focus on business. Build an empire.
I have said this a thousand times. On interviews. That I don’t wanna get married it’s not my thing. All I wanted was to get a baby from sperm bank, set up businesses, live life, date, have fun, but not get married. That was my vision about life. It was crazy that I actually visited sperm banks while in LA just to prepare myself for that stage…after launching my business that’s what I was going to do!
And just when I was going about setting my business and move on with my plans. This happened. We started dating and it was mutual. Well at least I thought it was. And in several occasions I prayed about it. I asked God. Is this your way of changing my mind? Is this your way of stopping me from getting a child to grow up without a father? Is this you God? I was confused cause I didn’t understand how this came in at a time when I had my own plans and was ready to execute them.
I was hesitant at first cause 1 thing told me hey! What if he’s just there to take advantage of the situation. The other said, what if God just made it happen. I was totally confused.
And if you noticed I only posted about us much later when I slowly felt convinced about this relationship…y’all were claiming I’m not posting him cause I’m still doing shit. First of all, I have been in Kenya since January 2018, I haven’t messed with anyone ever since I decided to get myself together. I got so many suitors until today that I still cut off. Cause I am not that person anymore.
It’s crazy how life can be. I have numerous times said that I don’t date Kenyan men. I once had bad experience in 2010 that put me off. And guess where I ended up? Right back where I was running away from. My friends said he’s finally giving ladies hopes to fall in love again and showing that there are good Kenyan men out here. Some friends were overprotective. Told me they’re worried he’s only gonna use me to get his career popping. I argued and defended him and still stood by him. Because I loved him. Nothing anyone could say would change that fact cause you can’t compete with the heart. I have been a better person. I’m stable. I’m grown. I am independent and I know my worth. Most of all I’m still a Queen.
This is life. And you learn from experiences. People date. Break up and life moves on. But what’s crazy? When 5 days after the video comes out someone tells you they don’t love you anymore. You never cheated. Never flirted. Always supportive. Invested time, love care. He had asked me to be in his video several times, for several months. From the 1st month we started dating. And I wasn’t feeling the idea cause I didn’t know if he wanted just a video or he was in this for love. I needed to take time study where this was heading. With time I got to feel more secure and I wanted to support him. So when he asked I said I would do it for him.
Imagine after 3 years of turning down video offers that were paying well cause I stopped being a video vixen. I went out of my way to do it for him. Out of love, just support any woman would give her man. Then 5 days after the video, he says he doesn’t love me, it’s just funny. Ask oh since when. Says since after Mauritius. Oh why didn’t he say this then? why pretend to love me, get me into the video then say it later? If you stop loving someone, you don’t get them involved at all. But nah. Video had to be done. That’s reality you just have to accept and take in.
Life and experiences get us learning new things everyday. I honestly wish you nothing but the best life has to offer. You’re a great person. You have great talent and you will get far.
All the best in your projects. Baby love video is a success and so will your future projects.
All the best in your upcoming international events & generally everything. May God grant what your heart desires.
I really gave my whole in this relationship. Love. Loyalty. Care and support. I did my part, and I’m sure you did yours.
I’m a strong woman who’s gone through the best and the worst in relationships. Heck I’ve been through it all. Abusive relationships, both mentally and physically it’s cray and there’s nothing I can’t handle. I just keep getting stronger each time. My life is such a roller coaster I can literally write a book. Damn…
Anyway, life moves on….no regrets, only lessons.